A Happy Bridesmaid

Mar 17, 2009 Wedding Planning Institute

 

“A happy bridesmaid makes a happy bride.” – Lord Alfred Tennyson

 

According to The Wedding Report, bridesmaids will spend nearly $10 billion on weddings in 2009. It is often the job of the Certified Wedding Planner to help today’s bridesmaids, as well as their brides-to-be, get the most value out of their wedding budgets.

Here are the estimated cost breakdowns for the $1009 to $1405 spent by the average bridesmaid at a single wedding in 2009.

 

2009

Bridesmaid dress

$178

Accessories

$52

Alterations

$56

Bachelorette party expenses

$152

Bridal shower gift

$72

Hair service

$65

Hotel (per night)

$140

Manicure (plus tip)

$32

Outfit for rehearsal dinner

$71

Pedicure

$30

Plane fare

$303

Rental car (per day)

$88

Shoes

$49

Wedding gift

$117

 

Because most bridesmaids fulfill the role more than once, sometimes the costs can get out of control. On average, each bridesmaid takes on the role three times in her lifetime. Two-thirds of all bridesmaids participate in anywhere from two and five weddings. That translates to average costs of $3000 to $4000-plus per person.

The High Cost of Bridesmaiding

The High Cost of Bridesmaiding

Combined with the fact that over 80% of bridesmaid dresses are worn only once and it is no wonder some bridesmaids are beginning to push back. In an advice column published in Baltimore, one besieged bridesmaid asks:

“At what point can a maid of honor for a wedding tell the bride that she can no longer keep up with the costs associated with being the head bridesmaid, and that the wedding-preparation bliss associated with her big day is so over?”

Even with the high cost of bridesmaiding, cash and gift cards are among the top three gifts given to a bride at showers and weddings by her attendees. The top three brand name gifts are Victoria Secret, Tiffany, and Vera Wang.

Part of learning how to become the most valuable wedding planner possible for your clients is creating a planning atmosphere of competence, efficiency, and harmony. One way to do that is by helping bridesmaids find peace with their mission and value for their contributions.

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Scribe Studio Announcement

Mar 9, 2009 Wedding Planning Institute

We have recently learned that due to their own economic realities, Distance Learning, Inc., the owner and operator of Scribe Studio, will be closing their site on May 1, 2009. This will not affect Lovegevity’s Wedding Planning Institute, our Certified Wedding Planner students, or our other partners except to expedite a change that was already in the works prior to this announcement.

We have utilized the Scribe Studio online classroom environment for our students’ distance learning needs for the past several years, but due to the expansion of our own business, have been in negotiations with a replacement service that will better serve the needs of our students, graduates, and other partners.

Scribe Studio

Scribe Studio

The new online classroom provider will allow our students, graduates, and instructors to communicate, share, and participate in each others’ successful wedding planning businesses as well as have continued access to curriculum resources and continuing education courses.

As the transition date approaches, we will continue to communicate the process and details to you through email, newsletters, our blog, and our websites. Our goal is to make the transition seamless and simple for our students and other partners.

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The Budgetary Best of the Brides.com Top 75

Mar 5, 2009 Wedding Planning Institute

Brides.com Top 75 Wedding Planning Web Sites

Brides.com Top 75 Wedding Planning Web Sites

 

Brides.com, Condé Nast’s premier bridal destination, last week released its list of the top 75 web sites for wedding planning. Here are some of our favorites for the Certified Wedding Planner or those learning how to become a wedding planner in today’s tough economy.

Cost of Wedding, operated by The Wedding Report, not only shows couples the average wedding budgets per zip code, but also includes a wedding cost estimator that pinpoints the costs of each wedding budget item. Learn the marital legalities of your state with US Marriage Laws, which provides wedding license regulations from Alabama to Wyoming.

If you are in the market for unique wedding invitations at a very low cost, try Formal Invitations. In addition to affordability, they also offer recycled papers and customizable designs. Wedding Mapper provides mapping software to help you create wedding directions your guests will love as much as your invitations.

Use the free website application at eWedding or Wedding Book to communicate your wedding plans and ideas to family and friends. To capture the memories while preserving the budget, You Shoot will rent you digital cameras and then host your wedding photos online for sharing.

Color Hunter allows you to plan a color scheme by uploading an image and generating a complimentary color palette. To learn whether you have what it takes to design your own wedding florals, take the DIY quiz at Flower Bud.

Top Table Planner gives you drag and drop online seating planning software to arrange your tables, chairs, and guests until you find the perfect fit for your reception space. To find decorations and favors that will impress without breaking the budget, try Save on Crafts which everything from centerpieces and aisle runners to organza bags and vases.

The dress guide at The Dessy Group will keep bridesmaids in line and in fashion. The tuxedo boot camp at Groom Groove strives to do the same for the men in the wedding party. Nexxus and Smashbox both offer the do-it-yourself bride tutorial videos on hair and makeup techniques. Emitations offers an answer to recessionary accessorizing with faux jewelry that mimics top quality without costing you your bottom dollar.

For the bride and groom who know what they want to say but have not a clue how to say it, My Wedding Vows offers inspiration and samples for writing wedding vows. For the creative couple, DIY Bride offers advice, downloads, and links to solutions provided by their DIY members. The folks at Wilton not only provide wedding cake recipes and designs, but walk you through the kitchen cupboards to show you exactly what you need to create confectionery perfection.

Many of the sites on the Brides.com list offer unique solutions to many wedding planning issues, while others are geared toward themes such as eco-weddings. Take a few minutes to check out the entire list and let us know about your favorites, whether they made the top 75 or not.

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