Planning a wedding or an event can be the most stressful thing to do. From choosing the reception site, to the church, to the dress, to the music, to the cake, to who is going to be in the wedding party. But the very first thing that a bride HAS to do is: PLAN A BUDGET. This is going to determine how much she can spend on the reception, dress, music, cake and ultimately the number of guests.
I see so many people come into my office with such elaborate ideas and then we sit down and start talking about MONEY, and they soon realize that they can’t afford the huge reception with open bar, top-shelf liquor and top-of-the-line food for 300 people. They realize that they HAVE to scale back tremendously.
Everyone has a different idea of a dream wedding. Some want a huge lavish wedding with all the bells and whistles. Some want a small intimate wedding in a backyard or garden. Whichever wedding is for your bride, be sure to make it a wedding that she wants and is happy with. She has to be happy with the wedding or event to truly enjoy it. When planning an event you want to take into consideration what is important to your bride. Is it her dress, the cake, the reception, the ceremony, or the food?
People will spend the most money on what is the most important them. If it is the dress then she might validate spending a large amount on it because that is the most important part of her wedding. The same goes for the cake, the music or anything else. I will offer these key pieces of advice:
1. Plan a budget.
2. Make it realistic.
3. Stick to the budget.
4. Determine what is important to the bride.
Do you have any tips to offer couples planning a wedding on a budget?
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